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celebrating diversity: affirming an inclusive community in Christ

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Current Activity
FoU MEETINGS 2006
Wednesday, 23 August 2006   Meeting begins at 7:30 pm. Julia Farr Centre Chapel, Fisher St., Fullarton.

AGM Thursday, 16 November, 2006 
Meeting begins at 7:30 pm. Julia Farr Centre Chapel, Fisher St., Fullarton.

DARING TO CELEBRATE  RELATIONSHIPS
Uniting Network National Gathering
Perth
June 9-12 2006

For more information
Phone: Wendy Longworth on (08) 9212 1453  EMAIL

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Friends Of Unity

Members of the Uniting Church in Australia proudly supporting the work and witness of members of UNITY and Uniting Network and affirming that all persons are part of God's good Creation.

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Friends of Whom?
UNITY is a Christian support group for lesbian, gay, bisexual & transgendered people.   It is a State's Group of Uniting Network.

Unity is a diverse group of Christians, within the Uniting Church, who come together regularly as a gathered community of God's people to affirm and celebrate each others' lives, gifts and faith. 

Unity provides opportunities for mutual support, fellowship, worship, Holy Communion, Biblical reflection, & discussion of key issues relating to faith and sexuality. 

Unity affirms that all persons, regardless of sexuality, are part of God's good creation.

 UNITY'S WEB PAGE 

Friends of Unity [FoU] is a group of Christian people, within the Uniting Church, who affirm gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered people and their families in the life of the Church and the wider community.

Friends of Unity stands in solidarity with Unity.
Friends of Unity meets regularly for mutual support & encouragement, sharing experiences & information & gaining new insights & understandings on issues of faith & sexuality.

Friends of Unity also aims to engage in continuing study & dialogue on issues of faith & sexuality with the wider church, by hosting open meetings from time to time. 
                                                                     Statement adopted 31/8/99.

Is Homophobia a Sin?
Prayer Resources

Some aims of Friends of Unity
  • to continue to build supportive relationships with members of UNITY:
  • to learn from being in relationship with gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered (glbt) people:
  • to provide a friendly group for those who wish to stand with glbt people:
  • to be a safe place for families and friends of glbt people:
 
 
  • to explore, with resource people, biblical, theological   and pastoral issues relating to sexuality:
  • to find creative ways of contributing to the church's ongoing dialogue on issues of faith and sexuality:
  • to be an inclusive community ourselves, 
  • to find ways to assist the whole church to become an   inclusive community in Christ.
  • For information about FoU contact 
    The Secretary
    Friends of Unity
    PO Box 848
    North Adelaide
    SA 5000

    Why Join Us?
    Is Homophobia a Sin?
    What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?
    News Items
    Resources


    Why join us?
    • If a family member or friend is lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgendered ("out" or not).
    • if you're feeling outcast or not understood by your congregation and Christian friends because of your support for glbt people.
    • Friends of Unity is a safe place to find affirmation, support and encouragement.
    • for those who are more secure, FoU offers an arena to reach out to those who are struggling- through pastoral support or by providing funds for special projects.
    • to join other voices for inclusivity.
    In a perfect church would FoU exist?

    No, there would be no need.  All people would be recognized for their gifts and 'fruit'- no one would be 'labelled' for reaching out in love to others.   Until that time comes, FoU provides a safe place for Christians to help and support one another, to educate and equip each other for ministry in the congregations and in the community.

    What do you have to believe?
    FoU has no set creed that its members must sign. FoU is open to all people of good will who believe in the great love of God for all people.

    Is homophobia a sin?

    Homophobia is the fear or hatred of homosexuality, and, in some cases, of homosexual people themselves.  We now understand it to be a sin, along with racism and sexism, all of which are generally accepted as unchristian denials of the worth of a person created in the image of God.  We recognize that people are much more than labels.

    Homophobia can be subconscious and can subtly affect our actions and opinions.  Many suicides are attributed to internalised homophobia, where an glbt person becomes filled with self-hatred.

    By recognising and naming homophobia as a sin we can help others and ourselves.

     

    The Bible and Homosexuality

    FoU recognises that within the Christian community the Bible is read in a variety of ways and with varying interpretations.  It is read always in cultural contexts that may be behind the text as historical background, within the text as the context of the writer or before the text as the context in which the reader or hearer receives and responds to the text.  Interpreting the Bible in our time demands a hermmeneutic of suspicion with respect to the Bible's ancient, patriarchal context.

    Homosexuality: Just What Does the Bible Say?
    A commentary by our web editor, giving an analysis of the often quoted Biblical texts that are applied by some people to issues of homosexuality.
    What does the UCA say?
    An editorial comment on the current Church position.
    RESOURCES

    A gift book of prayers and meditations 

    Singing while it is still dark: a gift book of prayers and meditations
    for members of the South Australian Synod 2003
    A publication of Friends of Unity, Adelaide, South Australia.

     "Faith
        is a bird
      that feels
       dawn breaking
    and sings
       while it is
    still dark."

    ORDERS NOW BEING TAKEN BY MAIL CLICK FOR DETAILS
    This book is now out of stock and out of print.  A re-print is being planned.

    Recommended Reading:-

    Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli, When Our Children Come Out.
    (Finch Publishing, 2005.)
    Rrp $29.95
    PFLAG information line: 92941002.

    Dr Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli, a senior lecturer in the school of health and social development at Victoria's Deakin University, has just published a book designed to assist parents with practical advice and answers to questions when their children come out as being homosexual. This is a book full of hope, love and wit, providing insight and support in times of personal and family need.  HIGHLY RECOMMENDED


    Theological Implications of the decision on Proposal 84 [Assembly minute 03.12.04]

    This paper looks at theological aspects of "Resolution 84" (Assembly minute 03.12.04) and demonstrates that this really is the "bottom line" for the Uniting Church.  More...

      How do we Read the Bible?

    A paper prepared and presented by Rev Brian Phillips at the May meeting of Fou, addresses issues of tolerance and biblical application.  After decribing the way the scriptures have been used by those opposing proposal 84 as "facile", an argument is presented to expand that remark.  This paper is very much a work in progress, as the author wrestles with how we struggle with contemporary issues through a filter made in an ancient and culturally different time and place.  It questions attempts "to push a particular interest at the cost of denying the Gospel values of inclusiveness, forgiveness and the search for healthy, life-enhancing community" and outlines four principles for a coherent and acceptable way of reading the Scriptures. More... 

    An extract from VOICE, Vol. 5., providing two very useful reflections on why evangelicals and liberals need each other. 

    Why the Evangelical Church Needs the Liberal Church
    (An External Link)
    A paper by Richard J. Mouw, President of Fuller Theological Seminary in Pasadena, California. This article is adapted from a presentation at the Covenant Network of Presbyterians national conference held in November in Washington, D.C.   As a conservative, evangelical voice, he speaks for Reformed orthodoxy and the creative tension that exists when dialogue between liberal and conservative opinion prevents the evangelicals from arguing among themselves!  As he says, "I would much rather see us continue to focus on the major issues of Reformed thought in an admittedly pluralistic denomination than to deal with the tensions that often arise among ourselves when evangelicals get into the debates that seem inevitably to arise when we have established our own "pure" denominations." more.

    Why the Liberal Church Needs the Evangelical Church
      (An External Link)
    A paper by Barbara G. Wheeler, President of Auburn Theological Seminary in New York City. This article is adapted from a presentation at the Covenant Network of Presbyterians national conference held in November in
    Washington, D.C. 
    In part, Wheeler says "Our side doesn’t have to agree with conservatives about what God is seeking to change or redirect or squelch—namely, all same-sex impulses—or about who is first in line for change. (I suspect that God’s priority is the privileged and powerful.) But we can stand our ground on these points and still let the evangelicals help us balance our word to the church: inclusion and acceptance, but also metanoia and new life. Who knows? If evangelicals listen intently to the testimony of faithful GLBT persons, and if our side accepts evangelicals’ prompting to admit our need and desire to be renewed, maybe we can strive together for a church as just and generous— and holy — as God’s grace."
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    A FoU Member initiative....

    The Adelaide Affirmation
    An affirming statement that comes as a prophetic voice in the wake of proposal 84 and calling for an end to all religious and civil discrimination against GLBT people.  The Adelaide Affirmation has been endorsed by individual members of the FoU Executive and is offered to the Church as a witness solidarity with those who affirm its statements.  While not being a petition, it remains open for people to add their names as signatories in affirmation.   You may read about the launch of the Adelaide Affirmation, here.

    Tapping the Resources of Uniting Network: 
    (links to Uniting Network resources)

    From Daring 2006
    A Greater Faith...  Day 2 Bible Study related material.
    Study Resources are now available at Uniting Network's web site.  This is newly compiled material from resources referred to the Assembly Standing Committee as recommended resources for Step 2 of the ASC lead process: "wrestling with issues".  Some of these resources are studies that may be downloaded.  Click to view.

    Using Dorothy Riddle's scale of attitudes about homosexuality is now on-line at Uniting Network, with provision of a downloadable version in Word Document format.

    Doug Brandon's article, "Reverence for the Scriptures" makes interesting reading.  Doug is not of open and affirming persuasion, and he styles himself as "evangelical" (aren't we all?),  however he takes EMU to task over some of its recent diatribe from its website.  This article is also available from the Assembly web site.

    VOICE:  FoU's Web Manager's Online Magazine, an extension of the FoU Newsletter.
                 Articles from FoU Members are always welcomed for inclusion in  VOICE. Email the Editor.

    Defining the Status Quo
    A web editorial from July 12, 2003, that states the position of the UCA with respect to the Church and homosexuality.  It has been updated to include the decisions of the Tenth Assembly.
     Prayer Resources
    Unity shares prayer resources with Friends of Unity.
    Parable of the Geese
    A parable of Kierkegaard concerning responses to the Gospel.
    A Process of Embrace
    How do we in faith and hope, approach reconciliation and diversity when disparate views have caused separation, alienation among people of the Church?
    Resolutions of the 2000 Assembly concerning unity and diversity . Copied here for your perusal and study.
    An account of decisions of the 9th Assmbly 2000, as they relate to issues of sexuality. Note that there is no moratorium on dialogue on issues of sexuality and faith.
    Change Agents in a Post-Modern Age: A Reading List for Progressive Thinkers ,
    Compiled by members of Friends of Unity, this is a reading list for progressive Christianity.  It provides a reading list under the headings, Critiques of a Tradition;  Community, Mission and Ministry: a crisis in relevance; Ecotheology; Science and Theology; Faith Ethics and Justice, Sexuality; Faith and Spirituality; and Spirituality.
    Coming Out Alive  External Link
    A resource published by Uniting Network as an ecumenical resource for affirming the place of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in the life of the church.
    Bridges-Across the Divide
    provides models and resources for building respectful relationships among those who disagree about moral issues surrounding homosexuality, bisexuality and gender variance.  External Link.  
    LINKS

    Uniting Church in Australia
    A site providing Access to the web resources of the Uniting Church in Australia.
    South Australian Synod
    National Assembly
    Uniting Justice Formerly Social Justice and Responsibility, provides resources for social justice and equity.
    Uniting Network:
    The national support group for glbt concerns within the UCA.
    PFLAG Australia:
    Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, NSW.
    Effective Living Centre, Adelaide:
    Supporting Church and Community.
    Recovery from Bible Abuse:
    a response to the abusive use of the Bible against gay, lesbians and others.
    Changing Attitudes.
    an Anglican website affirming gay and lesbian people and their ministries
    Whosoever:
    An Online News Journal For Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Christians.
    Reconciling Congregation Program:
    United Methodists - All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to God's self and gave us the ministry of reconciliation . . . Corinthians 5:18.
    The Carter Network:
    The Carter Network exists to encourage sexuality and gender status policy discussion, social support and advocacy for GLBTI people and is a group of the Australian Democrats  open to all members of the community. http://wwwstaff.murdoch.edu.au/~loader/scripture.htm

     Oasis
    An selection of material from SkinnyPreacher.com., giving access to many of the formative articles, decisions and reports leading up to the decisions of UCA Assembly, 2003.

     VOICE
    our extension to the FoU website offers commentaries, studies and articles made from reflection on issues raised within Friends of Unity, Unity and Uniting Network.  It is presented as an online magazine and works to support the content of the Unity and Friends  of Unity Newsletters.  Contributions from Members are welcome.  Email

    Approaches to Scripture: Considering the Options.  Bill Loader
           Prof. Bill Loader looks at several approaches to reading the bible for meaning.  His article is highly recommended to those seeking guidance in understanding the bible.
    Further information is available on the WCC's Web page.

    No Longer Silent
    An ecumenical organisation speaking against Christian negativity toward homosexual persons and home of the No Longer Silent: Phoenix Declaration. 

    The Adelaide Affirmation
    An affirming statement that comes as a prophetic voice in the wake of Resolution 84 and calling for an end to all religious and civil doscrimination against GLBT people.  While not yet an official FoU Statement, The Adelaide Affirmation has been endorsed by individual members of the FoU Executive and is offered to the Church as a witness solidarity with those who affirm its statements.  While not being a petition, it remains open for people to add their names as signatories in affirmation.   You may read about the launch of the Adelaide Affirmation, here.

    Gay Christian Net:
    An
    American based group affirming glbt people and their Christian beliefs.  Has resources, contacts, affiliates.

    SITE MAP

    Unity  /  A Process of Embrace   / The Bible on Homosexuality  /  Change Agents Reading List   /  FoU's Expectations 2003  /
    FoU Proposals 2003   /  Prayer Resources   /  Resolutions of the 2000 Assembly   /  Consultation 3/6/03   /  Parable of the Geese   /
    Defining the Status Quo  /  Editorial Comment 18/7/03 Pastoral Letters   /   10th Assemby Resolution 84   / Editorial Comment.  /
    FoU Press Releases August 2003  / Antiviolence  Affirmation  /  Post Assembly   /  One Man's View! Magazine   /   X-files
    Gift Book of Prayers  A Greater Faith...  /  Singing while it is still dark ...  SA Synod Resolutions 2003 
    Theological Implications of Assembly minute 03.12.04 / Press Releases 8-03 How do we read the bible?   /
    Who Are the Gay Christians  / Common Sense Guide to Christian Inclusivity  / 

     

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